I spent 18 months and $34K traveling the world: My No. 1 mistake

I spent 18 months and K traveling the world: My No. 1 mistake

In August 2022, I quit my dream job. Looking to heal my burnout and find happiness beyond work, I spent a year and a half — and $34,000 — exploring South America and Asia. For the first several months, I dashed through my bucket list destinations, hiking to snow-capped peaks and glacial lakes in Patagonia … Read more

I bought an apartment in Brussels for under $600K: Take a look inside

I bought an apartment in Brussels for under 0K: Take a look inside

My husband Martin and I met in Brussels in 2012, when I literally stepped on his toes at my neighborhood farmer’s market. At the time, I was working as a security manager at NATO headquarters, and he was on a business trip from his home in the Netherlands.  Three days later, we went on our … Read more

6 phrases that mean you live a happier, more hopeful life than most

6 phrases that mean you live a happier, more hopeful life than most

After three decades researching human hope and happiness, I discovered a method you can use to measure your happiness. It’s based on this simple equation:  Hope ÷ Hunger = Happiness This math formula — hope divided by hunger equals happiness — says that the more hopeful and less hungry you are, the happier you become. … Read more

3 phrases we use every day

3 phrases we use every day

As the CEO of the Happiness Research Institute, my work is dedicated to measuring and understanding what improves people’s wellbeing and overall quality of life. We’re based in Copenhagen, the capital of Denmark, one of the countries that is consistently ranked the happiest in the world. Danes are often surprised by this fact. As someone … Read more

Most successful people don’t use 5 toxic phrases: Psychologist at Yale

Most successful people don’t use 5 toxic phrases: Psychologist at Yale

As a faculty member at Yale, I teach hundreds of people every year. I’ve observed that although all of my students have extraordinary qualities, only some of them go on to live extraordinary lives. What makes them so special? They have a healthy relationship with themselves.  Most people, however, have the opposite: a toxic relationship … Read more

Why tipping is different here

Why tipping is different here

In July 2020, my husband and I left Los Angeles with our two small kids, to visit his family in a small town in the Danish countryside. We didn’t realize the trip would result in a permanent move and a new adventure. When a 1700’s farmhouse came on the market, we took a chance and … Read more

Why US retiree in Mexico chose not to cash in

Why US retiree in Mexico chose not to cash in

The resort town of Mazatlán, Mexico — where I lived from 2006 until last month — is one of the best spots to witness the total solar eclipse on April 8. Hordes of people are traveling there to experience the event. There was a 1,000% surge in searches for Airbnb listings in North American cities … Read more

Having AI write your resume

Having AI write your resume

As a leader at the education nonprofit Khan Academy, I was thrilled when ChatGPT came out in November 2022. It meant we could use generative AI to provide personalized tutoring to more kids than ever. But as a hiring manager and cofounder of a career development business who’s trained first-gen students at CUNY and MBAs … Read more

I moved from US to luxury apartment in Geneva: Look inside

I moved from US to luxury apartment in Geneva: Look inside

I’ve been an expat for most of my life. Originally from Japan, I’ve lived in a total of six countries. For the past 15 years, I’ve called Geneva, Switzerland, my home. When my then-husband and I decided to move here, to his hometown, our first child was just 10 months old. We wanted a change … Read more

Busy ER doctors say these 8 sleep tips help them ‘wake up refreshed’ every day

Busy ER doctors say these 8 sleep tips help them ‘wake up refreshed’ every day

As emergency medicine doctors, we clock in and out at all hours, making it tough to get enough rest. Physicians also come from a culture where boasting about getting by on little or no sleep is common or even boasted about. But we want to push back on that idea. Sleep is fundamentally important to … Read more