‘I’m so much happier’ here

There’s a joke in Norway that people move here for two reasons: a job or love. I’m in the latter group. I met my Norwegian partner in my international Master’s program in Migration and Intercultural Relations.

I decided to do my master’s in Europe after a post-college graduation gap year in 2016. Part of the choice was driven by affordability. Two years of my Master’s degree in Europe cost less than one year of my Bachelor’s in the U.S.

It turned out that I also enjoyed the idea of living where you can accidentally cross the border to another country without even realizing it!

While love did bring me to Norway originally, living in Oslo for the last two years, I’ve realized how much more there is to draw people here. My days are spent exploring, ice bathing, falling on skis, taking cabin trips and hiking under the “midnight sun.” 

An evening kayak ride in the Lofoten archipelago. This photo was taken in June around 10 p.m. We’re above the arctic circle, which means that the sun doesn’t set in the summer months!

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

Norway, with its population of 5.5 million, is a stark contrast to what feels like my previous life in bustling Chicago. The country’s slower pace of life and serene natural environment have brought me a lot of peace and joy.

I’m much happier in Norway. Here are five of the biggest reasons why:

1. The relief of having a stronger safety net

Norway’s healthcare, education and social welfare systems are designed to support people in times of need.

Of course there are bureaucratic delays. For example, between waiting for my application to be processed, to interview with the bank, and getting a phone number that I could connect to Vipps — the most popular payment app here — I waited close to six months to set up my Norwegian bank account. In the meantime, I got my earnings sent to my boyfriend’s account.

I am on a two-year waitlist for a deviated septum surgery that is on the books for this fall. I’ve been told that this can be typical for socialized healthcare, and since it isn’t a high priority procedure, or something more urgent. But once I get the surgery, it’ll be free — and that’s the point.

Essentials like healthcare and education are provided for, and this gives me immense peace of mind.

Essentials like healthcare and education are provided for, and this gives me immense peace of mind.

Yes, we do pay for these things with taxes. A freelancer, like myself, pays anywhere between 25% to 37% in income tax. It varies, but typically I bring in about $3,500 to $4,000 per month before taxes.

Still, knowing that I can call for an ambulance if I need one without risking debt or dipping into my savings makes the taxes feel more like an investment into a well-maintained and reliable social infrastructure.

2. Better work-life balance

The rumors are true, Norway is a fantastic place for work-life balance. It also helps when your colleagues are so cute!

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

My partner has 25 days of paid vacation per year, but I’m not really taking a summer holiday in the same way, because of my freelance client work. A lot of internationals tend to go the self-employment route because it can be tough to find work here as a foreigner. 

For me, I think I’m still a bit governed by my American roots when it comes to work-life balance. But it is something I’m learning about, and that I have a newfound appreciation for.

3. The level of public trust

Celebrating on May 17th, Norway’s national holiday. The streets are filled with parades and Norwegians in their traditional national costume, the bunad.

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

There are exceptions to every rule, like the time my phone was stolen at a bar in Oslo. But the overall sense of security contributes significantly to my sense of well-being and independence which I will never take for granted.

4. Access to the outdoors

Here I was hiking in Loen, Norway. I had to stop and take a selfie in between panicking about being on a mountain 400 meters above the ground. I’ve pushed myself out of my comfort zone in so many ways since moving here, especially when it comes to outdoor life.

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

There are organizations around the country that provide free rentals of equipment — from skis and ice skates to tents and hiking backpacks — to allow everyone to be able to experience the outdoors.

These practices have pushed me to go out of my comfort zone and helped me grow as a person. For example, ice bathing has been a really cool experience because it’s shown me how tough I am: getting into a freezing fjord requires a lot of mental resilience.

I’ve gotten a deeper understanding of why these traditions are cherished by Norwegians.

5. The chance to appreciate smaller moments

One of the sweetest Norwegian customs that I’ve fully embraced is the concept of kos. It literally translates to coziness, but it means so much more than that. 

Similar to the Danish concept of hygge, Norwegians embrace a sense of coziness, relaxation and contentment.

Here I am in Rjukan, Norway. Exploring the country and learning more about it’s culture, history and society has been a great way to feel more at home.

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

It involves creating warm and inviting atmospheres, often accompanied by the enjoyment of simple pleasures like hot beverages and quality time with loved ones. 

In Norway, I’ve developed a penchant for chilly evenings spent knitting, warm under a blanket by the fireside, enjoying life’s simple pleasures — especially when I know that I won’t be disturbed by work emails.

I have a new understanding of what happiness means to me

Ice bathing has turned out to be one of the best things to do in the winter for me. It tests my toughness and resilience, and gets me out of the house during the dark, cold winter.

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

I'm an American living in a $2,100/month luxury, 2-bedroom apartment in Copenhagen, Denmark

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