For most people, wedding planning involves perfecting every last detail, including, of course, setting a dress code. These days, wedding dress codes are just as big a part of the event as the venue, and some couples even use them to create a unique vibe for their big day.
Traditionally, wedding dress codes take one of three classic forms: casual, cocktail attire, and black tie. However, as the traditional rules of what a wedding should look like continue to be evolve, people are saying goodbye to the stiff structure of the past and embracing dress codes that feel special to them–making the attire part of the occasion fun for guests, and even better for the photo album.
Ahead, four brides tell Vogue about their wedding dress codes, why they chose them, and whether or not it was worth it.
Cliché Wynter-Mayo
Dress Code: Monochromatic (lavender for women and beige for men)
“We thought long and hard about the exact colors. Ultimately, because we were getting married in the forest, we wanted soft colors against the lush greens. Not to mention, we got married in the middle of July, so we wanted to ensure the colors would keep our guests cool for hours of celebration. [Our guests] really showed up and showed out! Women went as far as having bedazzled shoes, fans, and lavender handbags. All the men were crisp in their beige looks. The images were stunning. I would absolutely do it again. Because we got married during one of the peaks of COVID-19, there was a mix of anxiety and excitement for many people deciding to attend. The dress code helped add levity and fun that so many of us needed at the time. It also made the guests feel more involved in our big day. I highly recommend it!”
Kelsey Randall
Dress Code: Dressed-up meets dressed-down
“We wanted everyone to lean into the fall atmosphere because we married on a farm in upstate New York. We wanted people to be dressed-up in their looks but dressed-down in their footwear. Throw on your cowboy boots and a cool dress. No heels. So, there were people who were wearing fun platforms with suits and other things like that. I think most people are going to wear dress shoes to a wedding and heels, but because nobody is in heels, people danced the entire reception. It was great. People went crazy on the dance floor. Our DJ said, ‘I’ve never seen this many people dance at a wedding.’ I think it was because everyone’s feet didn’t hurt.”
Maria Del Russo
Dress Code: Disco formal
